A Woman's View

Finding Real Freedom in the Land of the Free

Fourth of July fireworks and patriotic songs reminded us we live in the land of the free. Are we living free?

And what does it mean to "live free," anyhow?                                   
Each of us will answer that differently. It took me years to understand that freedom comes from within, not from without. 

You may have been a fan of Nick Charles, the popular and much-acclaimed CNN sports announcer who recently died of cancer. He dearly loved his wife and doted on their five-year old daughter. Listen to what he told CNN's Dr. Sanjay Gupta not long before he died.

"I'm a forward looking person but also a living-in-the-moment person So I wake up every day expecting to have a good day. It may sound trite, Sanjay, but life as you get older is about 20 percent of what happens to you and about 80 percent how you react to it."

You've probably heard that said before. I have, too, but never with more power. 

If Nick Charles was a Christian, his words are understandable. Christians believe that faith in Jesus the Savior ensures us eternal life, so he would know will see his wife and child again.

Whatever his faith (or lack of it) Nick Charles spoke truth. How we react to what happens to us determines our lives. How we react depends on what's inside us, in the core of our being. That's what drives us. 

It took me a long time to grasp that. Then I read an old book, "Man's Search for Meaning,"  by the late Viktor Frankl, M.D., Ph.D.

Before World War II, Frankl, his wife and his parents lived the good life in Vienna. Then the Nazis invaded Austria. Like almost six million other Jews, they were sent to a Nazi concentration camp, separated, of course, and never saw each other again. Even Frankl's wedding ring was taken from him.

During those anguishing days in the Camp he realized a great truth. Here's how he summed it up.

"Everything can be taken from a man or a woman but one thing: the last of human freedoms to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way."                                                

Viktor Frankl in a death camp. Nick Charles close to death from cancer. Both of them in crisis mode and both said the same thing: We can't control everything in our lives, but we do control what we think about it.That dictates how we respond.

The Bible said ir first, in Proverbs 23:7:

            As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he . . .

We hang the labels on what happens to us.

We choose to park our minds in a lousy place or in a good place.

Young or old, rich or poor, in or out of crisis, to know this can change your life.

Take it from one who knows.

Lovingly,

Lenore

 

What can we hold onto in the midst of our national gloom?

You feel it everywhere, the down mood of our fellow citizens. For proof we can read the polls or the daily newspaper. Or we can ask our neighbor. Or maybe just look in the mirror.

And yet . . . and yet, we live in a nation blessed from its beginning. Our founding fathers had their own reasons for being depressed. Yet they came up with this unforgettable  first paragraph in our Declaration of Independence. 

"We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness."

They ended their Declaration with this statement that reveals what the base on which they rested.

"And for the support of this Declaration, with a firm reliance on the protection of Divine Providence, we  mutually pledge to each other our Lives, our Fortunes,    and our sacred Honor."

A number of them did pay with their lives and their fortunes, or family members did. As for their "sacred honor," many people around them called them traitors. John Hancock signed the Declaration first, boldly scrawling his signature. He said, "Well, I guess the King should be able to read that!"

(Ever since people have said, "Put your 'John Hancock' here.")

Arguments continue to rage over whether our nation's founders believed in God. Decide for yourself:

  "We recognize no sovereign but God, and no King but Jesus."      - John Adams and John Hancock    

"God who gave us life gave us liberty."    -Thomas Jefferson

"It is impossible to rightly govern the world without God and the Bible."    -  George Washington"

[The Bible] is the rock on which our Republic rests."   - Andrew Jackson"What students would learn in American schools above all is the religion of Jesus Christ."      - George Washington

"I am a real Christian – that is to say, a disciple of the doctrines of Jesus Christ.     - Thomas Jefferson

"Let us with caution indulge the supposition that morality can be maintained without religion. Whatever may be conceded to the influence of refined education on minds of peculiar structure, reason and experience both forbid us to expect that national morality can prevail in exclusion of religious principle."     - George Washington

Enough said. We'll see flags flying everywhere over this holiday weekend. I don't know who took this photo of the flag, but it's said to be un-retouched.

  

Looking at this photo lifts my heart. It seems a "curious coincidence" that the rays of the sun just happened to line up this way. . .

 

Since we seem to be in the middle of a long, hard trudge into who-knows-what, it's reassuring to remember again the timeless principles upon which this Nation was founded. The brave men who penned the Declaration of Independence were men who knew their Bibles. The principles they set down for this fledgling United States of America trace back to Bible verses like these:  

 

So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.    - John 8:36

 

Where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty. - II Corinthians 3:17

Blessed is the nation whose God is the Lord.  - Psalm 33:12

On July 4th, as we celebrate the birthday of the USA, it's time to give thanks. Thanks for those courageous men of faith and vision who founded our nation. Thanks for the protection of Almighty God. From the beginning He has been gracious and merciful despite all the ways we depart from His ways.

 

One thing more. Let's humbly ask God to graciously watch over our troops and to preserve this nation. Like our Founding Fathers, I believe we cannot endure without His blessing.

 

With a grateful heart,

 

Lenore

 

 

 

Hope in the midst of cancer and meaning in the aftermath

Imagine being thirty-two years old and being told the sore on the back of your tongue is malignant. Surgery, to be performed at once, would involve removing most, if not all, of your tongue. Afterward, you might never be able to swallow on your own, nor speak intelligibly.

Hearing that would devastate anyone, but especially a pastor who spends his life speaking, preaching and teaching. Especially the doting father of a two-year old little girl.

Scott Schmieding, a Lutheran pastor then in Baton Rouge, LA, survived the eleven-hour surgery in 1995. Surgeons in Houston opened his neck from ear to ear and removed his tongue through his throat. Then they removed a muscle from his abdomen and reconstructed the cavity in his mouth. Intense radiation followed, which caused mouth blisters. For eight months he breathed through a hole in his neck and ate through a feeding tube. Radiation also eliminated Schmieding's sense of taste and ability to swallow. So he learned a new way to swallow--a quick toss of his head backwards, to move the food to the back of his throat, where gravity took over. 

From the moment of his diagnosis one question dogged him. If he lived, how would he talk without a tongue? How could he communicate the Good News of Jesus Christ? That passion drove him to doggedly persevere in speech therapy sessions. With the help of a special retainer which acts somewhat like a megaphone, he learned to pronounce consonants. To make the "T" sound, for example, he shoots air at his retainer.

Finally Scott Schmieding was ready to return to his life as a parish pastor, wondering always what would happen if parishioners couldn't understand his slightly impaired speech. His first Sunday back he baptized his newborn son, there in the Baton Rouge congregation which had loved and prayed for him and his family throughout their long ordeal.

Schmieding says he never asked God, "Why?" Rather, he prayed to understand the purpose of his ordeal. During the past thirteen years he arrived at an answer. Noting that he and his family also lived through five major hurricanes in Louisiana, he says, "I have become an expert at adversity. I know what people are feeling when they face trials and tragedy."

That's why Scott Schmieding has become a sought-after speaker. His message of hope and perseverance comes through loud and clear. In March, 2010, he became pastor of Immanuel Lutheran Church in St. Charles, MO. Members soon found they didn't notice any speech irregularities because they were so caught up in their new pastor's joy in Jesus. 

When asked how he got through it, he points to the Apostle Paul, who faced his own set of daunting challenges. In 2 Corinthians 12:9, Paul repeats the words of Christ to him:

"My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.

Scott Schmieding knows the truth of those words first-hand. He believes he reaches more people without a tongue than he would have if he'd never had cancer. That doesn't strike him as remarkable. "The history of the Bible is the story of God using imperfect people for his perfect purposes," he says. "I'm just one in a very long line of imperfect people being used by God."

I learned of Pastor Schmieding when our daughter in the St. Louis area clipped an article by Tim Townsend in the St. Louis Post Dispatch, the basis for this blog post. I've never met him, but his story lifts my heart. I pray it will do the same for you. If you wonder how he sounds, here's a link to a short clip with sound: http://interact.stltoday.com/mds/projects/html/2428

(If you have trouble with the link, copy and paste it to your search engine.)

Each of us will draw our own lessons from this story of one man's life--and of course, his family's life, too. As I think about the miracle of his healing and the surgery that enables him to talk, it reminds me of one of my favorite Bible verses, Jeremiah 32:27:

"I am the LORD, the God of all mankind. Is anything too hard for me?"

God brought Scott Schmieding his long period of suffering and in the midst of it, gave him joy. Despite what looked like the worst kind of loss, he gained not only life through that surgery, but also a deeper understanding of what it feels like to be fearful and in pain. When he ministers to hurting people, they know he's been there and truly understands their emotions and their sometimes doubts.

This story says to me, Live. Live today. Live fully. Live in faith. Don't be too quick to label something "a disaster." Our lives are in God's hands and He often works through human hands.

What about you? What do you draw from this story? Maybe you have a story to share or are living out a hard time. If you tell the rest of us, we can pray for you.

Whatever you're facing, keep on trusting. God is faithful and He can be trusted.

His peace and blessings,

Lenore